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information, contact: Andrea Reynolds, (814)
774-5070 or info@CrisisBrainstorm.com
News
release:
December 23, 2004
Is Civility
an Antidote to Bullying, Intimidation, Aggression,
Hostility, Violence?
[
Girard, PA ] She was disappointed with personal attacks on
opponents heard in recent political messages. And she's
disturbed that the gossiping, intimidation, bullying,
vandalism, aggression and violence she has seen on the news
and in communities are not only prevalent, but tolerated.
So Andrea
Reynolds is
about to launch her one-woman Kindness Campaign across
North America. She will promote very simple, but seemingly
forgotten concepts: respect, empathy and compassion
(kindness) in an effort to counteract the mean-spiritedness
she has both seen and experienced.
Reynolds'
response to the skeptical: "I know. It sounds so simplistic
and idealistic, but I believe civility
is the
first
step toward
reducing and eliminating violence. Think about this: why do
people pick on others, intimidate, bully, cheat, steal,
become violent, hurt others and destroy property? Because
they feel inadequate, unloved, unwanted, unworthy, unheard,
hurt, ripped off, etc., and they haven't developed the
critical thinking skills to be able to identify other, more
constructive behavior choices."
She
then asks: "What if we treated those individuals (everyone)
with kindness, understanding, patience. Yes, that sounds
New Age-y, but there are specific, practical things we can
do and I'm happy to share some of the offbeat things I've
done that have worked. I offer specific creative ideas for
change that anyone can use; and I can talk about my own
experiences challenging swindlers, bullies, and
stalkers."
She
adds: "In the time I have left on the planet I want to
speak, write, teach, and do what I can to reduce domestic
and stranger violence, senseless murders of pregnant wives,
school shootings, and suicides resulting from bullying, by
diminishing all the thousands of hurts that bring a person
to act out his frustration and feelings of low self-worth.
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Bio
Andrea has
been interviewed as an expert on manners, morals, and
civility by such media hosts as British journalist David
Frost, the late Peter Gzowski on CBC radio and by
USA Today,
National Post, Financial Post, and Canadian
Business.
She has conducted seminars on Business and Executive
Civility for such companies as Northern Telecom (NorTel)
and privately groomed corporate CEOs on the finer points of
civility in business. At one time she operated Author's Bed
& Breakfast in downtown Toronto which incorporated many
elements of civility to guests of many
nations.
She
used to be a Family Studies teacher in the most dangerous
school in Toronto and was well liked and respected because
she too came from a violent home and understood the
students' predicaments. ("I turned out all right because I
chose to find healthy behaviors.") Later she was a media
guest expert on bad relationships (abuse, violence in
relationships, etc.) on a number of Canadian programs on
CBC radio and 4 programs on the Life
Network.
She
worked with Toronto police as a community volunteer and
helped put a serial burglar in jail. Then because of her
outspokenness and visibility on national TV she became the
target of a
stalker who had savagely beaten and raped two
women and (police think) may have killed two other women in
her neighborhood. She escaped... but had to leave
everything behind after 25 years in Canada to start her
life over here in the US.
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Criss-crossing
North America by van for a year, with her cats, she is
seeking public support.
Twelve
things she is asking you to do to support her
Kindness/Civility Campaign:
1.
Enter her a contest to
give away her furnished home in Pennsylvania
to someone who
needs one. Her plan is to raise enough money on her own by
speaking to support herself on the road for a
year.
2.
Enter her second
contest to award a month of her personal marketing
services to one expert, and ongoing
advice for a year to the 299 Second Place winners. She
needs to collect 300 entries (a list of the experts'
obstacles to success and $20 entry fee).
3.
Invite her to brainstorm multiple
solutions, one-on-one, with people
facing poverty, homelessness, cruel treatment by others and
feelings of hopelessness. (Many
problems stem from a lack of money or fear about
not having
enough money. So she plans to live simply
while teaching critical thinking skills to resolve crises,
stress and tension.)
4.
Subscribe to her weekly email
Civility Tip. It's free.
5.
Join her Intentional
Acts of Kindness Group to offer kind help to each
other. It's free.
6.
Sponsor her weekly civility column in your local
newspaper... if you're a business who cares about making
our society more civil.
7.
Invite her to
speak to your association conference,
business, school,
college, university, prison, juvenile detention center,
shelter, church, temple, etc. about how to incorporate
civility and specifically how it can actually work in your
neighborhood, workplace, community.
8.
Invite her to appear on your local radio program to discuss
critical thinking skills and how we can conquer many of
society's ills by practicing specific acts of
civility.
9.
Interview her for your newspaper column or send her
"news
release"
to your local newspaper.
10.
Read her web based
contest journal and later, words and photos of
her encounters and experiences while on the
road for
a year.
11.
Invite her to be a guest in your home... or manage
your small B &
B for
you while you're on vacation for a week or two... so she
can have a hot shower and bed to sleep in from time to time
when traveling from town to town. (B & B-sitting was
how she came to own her own B & B that she had to leave
behind.)
She
welcomes
invitations to speak on:
- Civility as an Antidote to Violence in Your Community and Society
- Business Civility: Civility as a Marketing Tool in Your Professional Practice of Service
- Smart Thinking: Triumph Over Life's Crises and Challenges With Your 10 Creative Solutions
- Stop the Chatter: How you can find creative solutions by getting quiet
- Hate: Anatomy of a Hate Campaign: How Hate Starts and How to Eliminate it from Your Family, Neighborhood and Community (True Story)
- Homelessness: 25 Brilliant Ways to Keep a Roof Over Your Head When Homelessness Seems to be Inevitable
- Empathy: Is Someone You Know (or You) Missing the Empathy Gene?
- Poverty: You're Smart... Why Aren't You Earning Enough? Steps to Take You from Chronic, Financial Chaos to Financial Comfort
- Poverty: Charity Begins Next Door: 100 Much Needed Gifts You Can Give Someone Who's Facing Financial Crisis
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Note to
Editor or Producer: Andrea can teach your readers
and listeners how to arrive
at 10 unconventional solutions to serious problems. For an
information-packed interview call Andrea Reynolds
directly:
814-774-5070, or email her:
info@CrisisBrainstorm.com
Contact Andrea Reynolds directly: (905)
280-0223; Cell: (905) 708-3081 or info@CrisisBrainstorm.com
News Release: October 15,
2006
Home Economist to launch 1,000 Good Deeds Tour across North
America
[ St. Catharines Ontario ] If someone offered to do a good
deed for you what would you want it to be?
That's what Andrea
Reynolds, a 57
year old American living in Canada, wants you to tell
her. Send her an
email or write her
a letter: tell her what you need
and where you are and she may show up in your town or city.
Send to: Andrea Reynolds, PO Box
1106, Lewiston, New York, 14092 USA
Reynolds, who earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Family
and Consumer Studies from Kent State University in 1973,
wants to teach the world by example how to be more kind and
compassionate of others by doing good deeds herself - one
thousand of them - across the United States and Canada, for
people in need of a helping hand or in crisis.
"I'm on a mission to find a kind, friendly community, and
I'll continue to do good deeds as I stop in each community
to have a look around. I've decided to sell everything, and
become 'homeless' until I find the right place. It could
take a year or two."
Her plan is to slowly traverse the continent with her 2
cats, Casper and Jasper, in her "poor man's RV"
a used
cargo van.
Equipped with camping equipment she won in a hospital
lottery, her home-office-on-wheels will take her wherever
she is booked to speak on the subject of
empathy in
business, school, family, community; and preventing and
handling crises.
Starting off penniless Reynolds must work to cover expenses
for her 1,000 Good Deeds Tour.) In whichever community she
is invited to present a keynote address, she will perform
good deeds for individuals who have made a prior request.
She urges people to send their request in regardless of
whether she has been booked to speak.
To become debt-free and cover her living expenses she is
selling: (see Andrea's wish
list)
1. Her 3 bedroom
condo; accepting
$100 for tours for curiosity seekers and
prospective
buyers who want to stay in the condo for 24
hours.
2. A newspaper column of her weekly
experiences, a
series about her observations doing 1000 good deeds and the
fascinating people she meets.
3. Her books from her web
site, including
her booklet of 365
questions to ask
before marriage which was featured on the
sitcom,
What I Like About You.
4. Very affordable "personal concierge"
franchises (Handy Ande) she created, to families who need a
second source of income.
5. Her keynote
addresses:
a. Good Deeds: The Best
Revenge
b. Overcoming
Self-Sabotage: How to
Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy
c. How to Brainstorm a
Dozen Solutions to Any Crisis
e. Empathy as a Marketing
Tool in Your Private Practice or Service
Business
f. How to Write Tough
Letters Brilliantly to Get the Results You
Desire
6. Small group, one day
seminars:
a. "You're Smart... Why
Aren't You Earning Enough?" How to Start Generating $40,000 to
$400,000 a Year.
b. OutSmarting Sweetheart
Swindlers: How to
Protect Your Assets from Romantic Con Artists
c. Toxic Friends &
Lovers: Recognize and
avoid "emotional vampires" and "psychological terrorists."
d. No More Empty
Relationships A
workshop for single adults who want to break the pattern of
going-nowhere relationships.
e. Questions about money
you need to ask each other before you
marry.
As she travels Reynolds will depend on the
kindness of
strangers. "I
can't afford motel or B & B stays, so I'd love to find
house-sitting assignments where I can have access to
electricity, the Internet, and a hot shower. I can housesit
in, stage and show empty homes to prospective buyers that
are for sale and slow to sell; but I'd settle for parking
in someone's driveway and having my extension cord plugged
in to their home for a few hours."
Already, Andrea has received offers of places to stay in or
visit:
- Alexandria, Virginia
- Jamestown, Virginia
- Dallas, Texas
- Omaha, Nebraska
- Montague, Michigan
- Olympia, Washington
- Tampa, Florida
- Greenville, South Carolina
- Pincher Creek, Alberta
- Schenectedy, New York
- Des Moines, Iowa
- Clarkston, Washington
- Southhaven, Mississippi
- Lorain, Ohio
- Hagerstown, Maryland
Any corporation, association, school, university, nonprofit group, or government agency who desires to have Andrea Reynolds perform good deeds for individuals in their community should contact her with a request to speak, possible subject, location, and date required. Please contact her directly: (905) 708-3081 (cell) or (905) 280-0223.
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For press and media interviews, contact her
directly: (905) 280-0223 or (905)
708-3081 or
info@CrisisBrainstorm.com
Some interview
questions to ask Andrea:
1. If someone offered to do a good deed for you what would
you want it to be?
2. What's a good deed?
3. What's the difference between a good deed and common
courtesy?
4. What's the best good deed you've done for someone else?
5. What the best good deed for which you've been the
recipient?
6. In your experience, is there any truth to the saying,
"No good deed goes unpunished"?
7. Do you really believe that good deeds are the best
revenge?
SIDEBAR:What are good
deeds?
Good deeds are unpaid actions that a recipient requests,
not necessarily what the doer wants to do. Reynolds will,
as an example:
1. Write a letter of
complaint to get
results for an elderly person who is too intimidated.
2. Write a resume for an out-of-work husband.
3. Resolve a marital dispute. (She holds a degree in Family
Studies and wrote 3 relationship books.)
4. Grocery shop for
someone who just
had surgery.
5. Cook a healthy, nutritious, economical meal for a low
income family. (She used to teach home ec.)
6. Help a student rehearse a speech.
7. Create a basic web page for a single mom who wants to
start a business.
8. Write a Victim Impact
Statement for a
victim of crime.
9. Give away 100 Handy Ande Personal
Concierge Franchises to help underearning individuals and
families generate more income.
