How you can help me
Thanks for praying for me but don't just pray for me. HIRE ME to speak, write, consult, brainstorm, or solve a crisis. Buy my books. I do good work. Recommend me to others. Invite me to housesit in your absence.
Don't judge me by my financial status. I arrived in this state by being a good citizen, exhibiting courage and bravery, having integrity, and doing the right thing. Despite what you might think, I don't drink, don't use drugs, don't gamble, don't smoke, don't buy extravagant clothes, or have any other addiction. Are you surprised by that?
It's not only futile to ask me to work for free or ask me to send you money... it's insulting.
This is a temporary situation. So if you treat me with contempt, avoidance, rejection, exclusion now, don't expect me to be kind and generous to you when my life is going well again and you need my support. Karma is a boomerang.
Don't break promises you make to me. When you do it not only hurts my spirit, but makes you look like a person who lacks integrity or good character.
Don't treat me like a second class citizen. In this country we are all created equal.
Homelessness and poverty are not contagious. I don't have cooties. Knowing me or being in my presence will not cause you to lose your job, your home or your family. Whoever told you differently must have been practicing voodoo.
Please don't suggest I take a minimum wage job. It's not that I think I'm above doing physical labor - I don't. After all I ran a bed and breakfast which was simply a glorified cleaning job - but now with the heat and my arthritis pain I don't think I can do cleaning jobs any more. Besides where will I put Casper? I can't take him with me to the job site. I'd prefer to do what I do best: write, publish, teach and speak. It's work I love and it pays better.
I'm not looking for a job, I'm rebuilding my advice empire. (The next book is about building an empire from/with nothing.) You didn't think I was without a plan, did you?
Pay me competitive rates. When you think you can get away with offering me minimum wage for work I used to do at much higher rates - public relations, marketing, consulting, etc. - you not only insult me, but you appear to be someone who exploits others. I avoid exploiters.
Please don't tell me to keep my homelessness a secret. The premise of the book I'm writing is to show how people treat me when they KNOW I'm temporarily homeless. If I hide the truth, I have no book material. And the book is my primary occupation right now. It sets the foundation for all my future work as a Kindness Crusader-Activist.
Please don't suggest I put my cat down because he is an inconvenience in my life. He's 14 and I intend to let him live until he is diagnosed with a terminal or incurably painful disease. Only when it is to alleviate his suffering will I consider euthanasia.
Remember The Golden Rule: Treat others as you would have them treat YOU.
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